Huh!!! Thats a sigh after profusely hyperventilating .Some day my Hyperventilation is going to replace my normal breathing...
Its my house and I think if its my house , i can let in anybody whom I want ( keeping the inmates informed).
Why the hell should i call the "head of the family" who does not reside in the same city as I and get his / their permission? Worser - why the hell should somebody who is coming to "my" house speak to that Head of the family to seek permission??? - To make things more peacful - Do i have an "Attitude" problem ? should i manage expectations better ( may be i should i got a MHA( Master is Home Administration) specialising in Expectations Management).
Married guys ..please listen . Child marraiges are abolished. We are all adults. We know to manage ourselves. We may be a weeker sex ( Biologically - stamina ) doesnt mean that we have to be monitored and taken care of. Nobody has to take my responsibility.I am responsible for myself.
Retired officers at home - please take rest. You dont have to be a Finance Manager / manager - Deposits / Wealth Management Advisors / Internal Auditors at home. I can manage my money . For me its "intervention in my privacy" to disclose my "take home pay" and give you my Bank statements . Don't ask . I am having difficult time not giving it to you and explaining that i cant ever give it to you.
You need to be happy by yourselevs. Dont expect people to behave the way you want them to- just to make you happy.In the evenings of your life, please be satisfied with what you have instead of being unhappy with "somebody not taking your permission" or "somebody not conveying condolence message to you or your son for your brother's Natural and timely death".
Life is a hell trying to manage others expectations and following the protocols!!!!
And Appa - As you said this(marraige) is definelty a friction but trust me it is not a necessary friction like you said.
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